Confederate Memorial Day

Confederate Memorial Day is observed in North and South Carolina on May 10 – the day that Thomas “Stonewall” Jackson died in 1863 at the age of 39. If ever there is a day on which to fly the Confederate flag, Confederate Memorial Day is it.

Alabama, Florida, Georgia, and Mississippi observe Confederate Memorial Day on April 26. Virginia has May 30 as their day, and Kentucky, Louisiana, and Tennessee set aside June 3 as Confederate Memorial Day.

For a list of Confederate holidays, refer to the Confederate Colonel holidays page.

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Ten Ways – from Raising Homemakers

Raising Homemakers is a great resource for all parents wanting to raise their sons into gentlemen and their daughters into ladies. It is aimed at mothers raising daughters, but there are also plenty of nuggets for those raising sons.

Ten Ways to Teach Your Children a Biblical World View is just what the title says. Be sure to read the entire article, and consider making Raising Homemakers a part of your regular reading list – especially if you have daughters. The ten points are:

 

1.   Start at the starting point:  Read the Bible–a lot.
2.   Read literature/history texts written by authors who have a biblical worldview.
3.   Eat together at least once a day and talk about current issues around the dinner table.
4.   Watch movies that encourage conversation regarding issues/how the Bible relates to those issues.
5.   Use a course or materials specifically written to teach worldview.
6.   Consider sending your older child to a worldview camp or conference or attend one as a family
7.   Create an atmosphere in your home that honors biblical thinking.
8.   Attend a church where the Word of God is consistently, faithfully taught.
9.   As your child gets older, transfer spoon-fed biblical teaching methods to self-directed bible study
10. Choose an education that backs up what is being taught/has been taught at home.

Here at Confederate Colonel, we mainly concern ourselves with Southern culture and how to preserve and defend it against an ungodly and hostile world. There is a reason that The South is also referred to as The Bible Belt. While there have always been plenty of non-Christians in The South, even they generally understood that Southern culture is firmly rooted in The Bible. Christianity and Southern culture are inseparable.

Take full advantage of resources such as this to make sure that your family understands the precious gift of God’s grace. That understanding is not magically absorbed from parents – it must be taught. Of all the things that parents and grandparents can pass along to the next generation, the love of God is the single most important thing. The eternal fate of your family – and of all mankind – depends on it.

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Shaping A Culture

Here at Confederate Colonel, we uphold the culture of the Old South as our ideal. We draw on the lives of men like Robert E. Lee and Thomas “Stonewall” Jackson to understand what that culture was like. We look at contemporary writing, at the art and the architecture, at the politics, and at whatever else we can find to learn about that culture. In the end though, we are left with our own individual interpretation of the culture of the Old South.

An interpreted culture is one that is shaped by those who are doing the interpreting. How we shape this culture says a lot about who we are. What we are doing here is shaping a culture that retains and builds on the best aspects of what we know about the original culture of the Old South.

What an opportunity we have! In reality, those of every culture have that same opportunity, but there are few forces at work trying to shape the current culture of the Old South, so we have a great amount of latitude in shaping that culture. What are we going to do with that opportunity? What choices will we make? Most importantly – how will we incorporate that into our own lives?

The culture of the Southern gentleman is the culture of the Old South. We can shape our lives to be true Southern gentlemen, true Southern ladies, and to raise our children and our grandchildren to follow in those footsteps. Will we? Or will we just go along with the crowd with what passes for culture today? The lyrics of Silence is Golden 1 include the words, “Talking is cheap, people follow like sheep, even though there is nowhere to go.”

We have a great opportunity to shape our lives and our families. Let’s not squander that opportunity.


Notes:

  1. The Tremeloes, 1967
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White Privilege – Guilty As Charged

I originally wrote and published this on February 17, 2011. I was reminded of it on the birth of our second grandchild. I am posting it again as a reminder to myself of the responsibilities that we have to our children and grandchildren.


One cannot be a vocal advocate of Southern heritage and culture without encountering the topic of race on a regular basis. It shouldn’t be that way but it is, so it must be confronted head-on.

I have been reading recently about the concept of White Privilege – what our accusers define as an unearned, unmerited advantage that Whites have over other races. To that I answer, “Guilty As Charged.”

Let’s look at this White Privilege that gives me an “unfair” advantage over others:

I have the privilege of being raised by both my mother and my father in a stable home where drugs, alcohol, and crime never intruded.

I have the privilege of being raised by parents who understood the value of education and insisted that I and my siblings take learning seriously.

I have the privilege of being taught at an early age that making sacrifices today in order to have something better tomorrow is one of the keys to progress.

I have the privilege of having grandparents who taught my parents these same values – and generation upon generation before them.

I have the privilege of learning about the Western European culture – the music, the literature, the science, the art – that has enriched the lives of all who care to take advantage of that culture; freely bestowed on all who care for the finer things of mankind.

I have the privilege of having a strong work ethic instilled in me from a young age.

I have the privilege of being raised in a Christian home and taught about the wholly undeserved love of a God who would sacrifice His only Son to pay for my sins.

All these privileges were given to me, completely undeserved and unearned. They were given to me by the generations that came before me because they put the best interest of their children above all else. If other races or other groups of people choose to live for their own immediate gratification with little thought for the fate of their descendants, then that is their choice. It is my fondest hope – and expectation – that one day my grandchildren, when accused of White Privilege, will proudly proclaim “Guilty As Charged”.

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A Southern Gentleman is Born

Richard Michael, grandson of Stephen Clay McGehee. Born at 4:14 this morning. 7 pounds, 15 ounces. 20 1/2 inches.

No one is “born” a Southern Gentleman, but allow me a bit of liberty in this instance. I can assure you that Richard Michael will be raised to be a Southern Gentleman. Richard Michael joins his cousin, Ethan David, as our second grandson; the happy parents are Richard and Sarah. All are doing fine and are already back at home.

I am truly blessed with a wonderful family.

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A Southern Gentleman is Obedient

Part 7 of our series on the Southern Gentleman and the Boy Scout movement. Obedience is the seventh point of the Boy Scout Law.

Obedience is a tough one for many of us. The main reason we have trouble with obedience is pride – the sin that is at the root of all other sins. Another reason it is tough is because we are so often faced with demands from illegitimate authority. The legitimacy of authority is an important matter, and one that today’s society (and government) would like us to ignore.

The Yankees called us “Rebels”, claiming that the seceding states were in rebellion against the legitimate authority of the federal government. The Yankees were wrong. A rebellion is disobedience to legitimate authority, and that was simply not the case since secession was (and still is) completely legal. Any Southern gentleman should find the term “Rebel” to be offensive; we would do well to gracefully inform others who do not understand.

The real question comes down to “Obedience to whom?” The answer to that is actually pretty straightforward.

Obedience to God is, of course, the primary point. That means that we must first know and understand God’s word – not what we would like for God’s word to say; not what some self-proclaimed “expert” says; not just the parts of His word that we agree with – all of God’s word. That also means rightly dividing God’s word. We cannot take what was written to the Hebrew people of the Old Testament and apply it our lives; it wasn’t written for us as New Testament Christians.

We must also understand that in an evil world, there are always forces trying to claim authority that they do not have. Our Constitution is the supreme law of the land. It holds the same place as the king in an absolute monarchy. If a lawfully elected leader proclaims that we must do something, and the Constitution says otherwise, then being obedient means that we must follow the Constitution and not the illegitimate authority of those who disobey the Constitution. The same holds true for those appointed to enforce the law.

It must also be pointed out here that each of us routinely obey illegitimate laws and illegitimate authority on a daily basis. It is part of the price of living. While I would rather live here in America than any place else in the world, it is still a system run by man, and therefore, it is a corrupt system. Each of us must determine our own line that we will not cross. We must also understand that we willingly accept the penalties that the system imposes on those who oppose it.

“There are two types of people who are doomed to failure in this world:
Those who cannot give orders and those who cannot follow orders.”
Author unknown

“Rebellion to Tyrants is Obedience to God.”
Benjamin Franklin’s suggested motto for the Great Seal

“If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land”
Isaiah 1:19

“For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things.”
2 Corinthians 2:9

“Put them in mind to be subject to principalities and powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work”
Titus 3:1

“Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king.”
1 Peter 2:17

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A Southern Gentleman is Friendly, Courteous, and Kind

Part 6 of our series on the Southern Gentleman and the Boy Scout movement. These are points 4, 5, and 6 of the Boy Scout Law.

Friendly – Having the temper and disposition of a friend; kind; favorable; disposed to promote the good of another.
Courteous – Polite; wellbred; being of elegant manners; civil; obliging; condescending.
Kind – Disposed to do good to others, and to make them happy by granting their requests, supplying their wants or assisting them in distress; having tenderness or goodness of nature; benevolent…
— Websters Dictionary of 1828

For this post, I am combining three points of the Scout Law into one. Friendly, Courteous, and Kind are three sides of a triangle that makes society work smoothly. When any of those are missing, we all suffer.

So much of the world today seems to be coarse and cruel. We see videos posted on the internet showing gangs beating and humiliating an innocent person while the mob of thugs laughs and videos this cruelty as though it were a great spectator sport. Although it is currently almost exclusively a Black phenomenon, history has shown that Whites tend to follow the worst traits of Black culture. That makes it all of society’s problem – it is not just a Black problem such that we can smugly point our fingers at someone else. While Whites have little or no influence over Black culture, we do have influence over our own. The question is – will we exercise that influence in a powerful way to assure that our culture, at least, is friendly, courteous, and kind. We must become active role models. The best outcome would be for other cultures to see and emulate this so that their culture is taken to a higher, nobler level.

Our objective here at Confederate Colonel is to preserve and build up the culture of the Southern gentleman. While the most immediate benefit is to ourselves and our families and our circle of friends, it also benefits all of society. Ideally, others will observe, appreciate, and then follow the life pattern of the Southern gentleman. That is what makes a successful culture.

A few quotes on manners and etiquette:

Traditionally Southern statesmen have been orators. A society emphasizing social rituals and manners requires a kind of reverence for words to adequately express sentiment and feeling. The dregs of this rhetoric remain the stock in trade of the grass roots politicians. The Southerner generally does not shy away—to the extent the Northerner does—from a use of language that is something more than bare statement. The Northerner, with his conditioned respect for practicality and getting-to-the-point is more likely to possess a far greater reading than speaking vocabulary and to associate anything more than simple expression with ostentation.
William Van O’Conner 1947

Manners are of more importance than laws…. Manners are what vex or soothe, corrupt or purify, exalt or debase, barbarize or refine us, by a constant, steady, uniform, insensible operation, like that of the air we breathe in.
Edmund Burke 1796

Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices.
Ralph Waldo Wmerson 1876

I have always been of the mind that in a democracy manners are the only effective weapons against the bowie-knife.
James Russell Lowell 1873

More quotes about manners.

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Tentacles In Our Children

(We will return to the series of posts on the Southern gentleman and the Boy Scout laws, oath, and motto next week. This is the first post in which the new email subscription feature has been enabled.)

The Consumer Culture has been getting its tentacles deep into the lives of our children. Do we truly understand what this means? Do we allow this attack on the lives of our children? In the case of some health issues, it is literally an attack on their lives. In the case of other issues, it is warping the perspective of future generations by making consumption the goal to be pursued at the expense of all others. This is the end result of the industrialist portion of Yankee culture. The polar opposite of this is Southern Agrarianism.

If we have any duty at all to our children, then we certainly have a duty to guide and direct how they interact with influences like this. Just because something is available through the media does not mean that we should allow our families to be exposed to it. No thinking man would allow his family to be exposed to a deadly disease, yet far too many would think nothing of exposing their family to something just as deadly to their character. Don’t let that happen.

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Mob Rule in America – The Trayvon Martin Case

I had hoped to go through the series of posts on the Southern gentleman and the Boy Scout laws, oath, and motto without interruption. Current events have intervened and I feel compelled to comment on what has become commonplace in America – mob rule.

A recent shooting in Sanford, Florida (about an hour’s drive from my home – I used to work there as an engineer for a defense electronics company) has once again polarized America into a Black vs. White, Us vs. Them situation. First, let’s admit that none of us really knows what happened; God knows, but He isn’t talking at the moment. Here are a few of my own observations regarding the shooting of Trayvon Martin by George Zimmerman.

  • The main stream media (MSM) is doing everything it can to whip people into a frenzy and to make the story fit their Leftist ideals. Not report the news – make the news.
  • The MSM describes Zimmerman as White, when he is a man with a Hispanic mother (Peruvian) and a White father. Barack Hussein Obama is always referred to as “Black” because it is to the Left’s advantage to have a Black president. It is also to the Left’s advantage to call Zimmerman White rather than Hispanic.
  • This is heading to an inevitable ending – Zimmerman will be arrested for something. When he is tried, everyone involved in the trial will know that mass rioting by Blacks will be the result if he is found not guilty. It is impossible for Zimmerman to have a fair trial.
  • Martin is portrayed as an innocent little angelic child who was simply minding his own business and walking down the road with some iced tea and some candy. Really? Why was Martin visiting his father so far from his school on a school night? He had some free time because he had been suspended from school. Do you have any idea how bad someone has to be to get a five-day suspension (some sources say ten days) from a public school in Miami? For a Black male to be suspended from a public school? Do a search on that and see for yourself just how little that was reported, yet you will find all sorts of circumstantial details about Zimmerman not related to the shooting.
  • Aside from being “unarmed” and “carrying only some iced tea and some Skittles”, the media seldom points out that he was a 6’3″ 140 pound football player. Dressing in a “hoodie” that is the “in” fashion among the Black gangster crowd, is just glossed over or even used as a rallying point. “Hoodies” are worn by thugs precisely because it helps hide their identity while they commit their crimes. While it certainly isn’t a crime to wear a “hoodie”, symbolically aligning oneself with thugs clearly says something about one’s character and personality.
  • Zimmerman, on the other hand, is shown only in what appear to be mug shots – never the pleasant, smiling kind of cherubic photos that show Martin as the MSM wants him to appear.
  • Further making this into a Black-White issue, the MSM continues to describe the neighborhood as a “mostly White gated community”. It is, in fact, 49% White.
  • Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson have swooped in to join the publicity fray, with Jackson going so far as to call Martin “a martyr”. Philadelphia Mayor Nutter characterized the shooting as “an assassination.”
  • The New Black Panther Party has posted a $10,000 bounty on Zimmerman. Will the government charge them with murder if Zimmerman is killed? Is this really any different from paying a hired killer?
  • In the “Seldom Reported” category – a witness reported that Zimmerman was flat on the ground and screaming for help with Martin beating him; when police arrived, Zimmerman was bleeding from the face and back of his head and had a broken nose, and had grass stains on his back; Martin’s father listened to the 911 tape and stated that the person screaming for help was not his son.
  • The neighborhood had experienced eight burglaries, nine thefts, and a shooting in just the last year. Zimmerman actually caught one thief and aided in the apprehension of others. Zimmerman’s black neighbor was interviewed and included the remark that most of those criminals were black. How often was that reported?
  • Barack Hussein Obama – the man claiming the title of President – has added his weight to the crusade against George Zimmerman. He said, “… we’re going to get to the bottom of what happened.”
  • Democratic Senator Charles Schumer, always ready to shred basic rights, has asked Eric Holder’s Justice (sic) Department to investigate the “Stand Your Ground” laws that are now in effect in 23 states.
  • Those who are heading up this mob are making accusations that are simply not supported by evidence. Quite simply, they are backing themselves into a corner such that they cannot gracefully backtrack should evidence prove them wrong (remember that thing called “evidence”?). This is reminiscent of the mob rule involving the Duke Lacrosse team hoax, the Tawana Brawley rape hoax, and others of lesser renown. When these race hustlers are faced with evidence that shows them to be liars, they seldom, if ever, back down and admit they were wrong. Instead, they quietly claim that they were right all along and the White supremacist conspiracy is at work, or some such nonsense.
  • When Blacks (or anyone else being manipulated by the Left) are demanding “justice”, it pays to look very closely at exactly what they mean by “justice”. It is almost always “justice for someone”. Justice, by definition, is neutral. You cannot have justice for someone without also having injustice against someone else. You either have justice or you don’t. You cannot have justice for Trayvon Martin without having injustice against George Zimmerman.

Let me wrap this up with a brief vignette of what is happening and how the main stream media has so grossly abused the protections they claim under the First Amendment. Our son is a restaurant manager in a town near Sanford. One day, a reporter from Orlando came in and in casual conversation mentioned that he had just come from covering the story of a rally in support of Trayvon Martin (i.e., a mob wanting to lynch George Zimmerman). When asked what it was all about, the reporter explained that it was a rally in support of Trayvon Martin, who was gunned down “in cold blood” by a White man, and the police did not arrest him. When our son said, “OK, I’ve heard about that, now what is the other side of the story?” the reporter said, “There is no other side of the story. That is what happened.” His words were “in cold  blood”; if his statements don’t make your blood run cold, then you haven’t been paying attention.

Again, I don’t know what really happened. What I do know is that this is yet another example following the pattern of Rodney King and O. J. Simpson, where Blacks are demanding “justice” and meaning anything but justice. Before this is over, the politicians are going to put their pandering in high gear and do whatever they have to do to see that George Zimmerman is sent to jail. Does he deserve jail? I don’t know, but I see plenty of room for reasonable doubt, which is exactly why the Sanford Police followed the law and did not arrest George Zimmerman. What I do know is that in this Bread and Circus atmosphere, George Zimmerman will not get a fair trial and the full force of the government will be used to appease the Black community at all costs.

This is an election year, the economy is heading off a cliff, the politicians need a good distraction, there are election year conventions scheduled, and the media is working overtime stirring up more racial conflict. It is going to be a long, hot summer.




END OF ORIGINAL POST

I am planning to just add any further commentary on this issue as edits to this post rather than adding new posts. While this has the potential to become an incredibly important issue, it is not the focus of Confederate Colonel, and I don’t want to take it too far off track. Unless the situation escalates to the point that a new post is called for, we’ll just leave it at this.



 

April 2, 2012
NBC News has announced that it will conduct “an internal investigation” after being caught intentionally altering audio from the 911 tape to make George Zimmerman appear to be motivated by racial rather than rational criteria.

What NBC broadcast on the “NBC Today Show”:

Zimmerman: This guy looks like he’s up to no good. He looks black.

The actual conversation:

Zimmerman: This guy looks like he’s up to no good. Or he’s on drugs or something. It’s raining and he’s just walking around, looking about.

Dispatcher: OK, and this guy – is he black, white or Hispanic?

Zimmerman: He looks black.

For an organization that claims to be practicing responsible journalism, this is so over-the-top propaganda that NBC should no longer have any kind of credibility at all. They have all the professionalism of the supermarket tabloids.


 


This news article provides more evidence that this may truly be turning into mob rule. We are facing a situation where the behavior of unruly mobs of Blacks is threatening the rule of law. There are plenty of honorable civilized leaders among the Black community; the question is, will we see a “Black community” or a “Black mob“? For the Black community, it is decision time – prove that you truly believe the rule of law is better than the rule of the mob.

04/05/2012 – SANFORD, Fla. – The city of Sanford is preparing for the outcome of the special prosecutor’s decision about George Zimmerman, the neighborhood watchman who shot and killed 17-year-old Trayvon Martin but has not been charged.

Sanford Mayor Jeff Triplett said on Thursday that the city’s emergency management team has met regularly with the U.S Department of Justice to construct a plan. Officials said extra police officers and fire department officials are on standby. Neighboring agencies have also been asked to assist, if needed.

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A Southern Gentleman is Helpful

“Helpful” tends to conjure up cartoon images of a Boy Scout helping a fragile old lady across the street. There are those – especially those who identify with the urban culture – who would mock and scorn those who still believe in helping others. The fact is, though, that being helpful is still alive and well – at least down here in The South.

When my father first started walking with a cane, and my mother with a walker, they were  both amazed at the politeness they experienced – often by the people they would least expect it from. They routinely had doors held open for them, they were quickly ushered to the front on any lines, and were generally given the preferential treatment that an elderly person dealing with a handicap should be given.

Simply holding a door open for another person is not only “helpful” but it shows respect for others that a decent and orderly society needs to maintain itself.

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