I saw the big stink the media was making on that poor lady. Acting like they have never said that word before amongst friends. I hate the MSM they totally destroyed that woman’s credibility as well as her finances. All because some disgruntled employee heard half of a conversation not knowing the reason of the conversation.

I do hope she is doing well though!

Great Post!

And thank you for the comment about a different form of slavery. Truer words were never spoken. Sometimes people can’t seem to see the forest for the trees.

The fact is that this situation is bad for everyone involved. Whites forget about the great achievements and highly advanced culture that we built while focusing on very thin arguments claiming that we bear full responsibility for the failure of other races to achieve equal results. Blacks are given a perpetual excuse for their failures and no incentive to fix those failures. When their problems are believed to be caused by an outside source (Whites, slavery that ended a century and a half ago, etc.) then it is all too easy to claim there is nothing they can do about it – so they don’t. They place themselves into the very slavery that they use as an excuse – they become enslaved and addicted to the government handouts every bit as much as a junkie is to his heroin.

I have learned that this attitude is not just common to American Blacks – it is deeply ingrained into African culture as well (I am vice-president of a non-profit corp. that provides direct support for missionaries in Sierra Leone, West Africa, and have regular close contact with missionaries stationed there. We’re having dinner tonight with one missionary who will be returning to Africa in two weeks).

I do not mean to say one should not apologize when one is wrong, of course one should, but it’s way past time to quit being used as a whipping boy.

Lydia McGaughey Sherman was right on target, as always. That is correct – Paula Deen falls far short of what we would consider a good role model for the Southern lady. However, the point remains that to the general public, Paula Deen is viewed as a Southern icon. For that perception, she was (and remains) a target for those who would destroy Southern culture.

An Alabaman friend of mine said that black students did not want to travel across town to attend the newly integrated schools. Like Kathy Lee Jimenez, I, too, am from California. The Catholic high school I attended for my first two high school years used to be an all-white all-male school. It later became co-educational but still all-white. After integration forced its hand, the blacks came in and the whites moved out. My eldest half-sister (who is half black because her father is black) graduated from the school in 2004 and recently received a letter from them about the current status of the school which included a demographics pie chart. To put it comically, it looked like a black “Pacman” eating all of the other races that are now minorities in the school and the area. During my time there, I noticed there was a lot of racial tension even though the forced integration happened decades ago. However, whether it was at the Catholic high school or the charter school I eventually graduated from, I noticed that teenagers prefer to stick with their own kind. Because I was the only white kid at the charter school, I mostly just floated around mingling with whomever showed me kindness. Because that school is very new (six years old going on seven), there really is no racial tension. It is about 60% black and 40% Latino, and although they stick to their kind, they have no problems interacting with other races. I admit, I felt very uncomfortable there mostly because I had never been in such an environment. To my relief, I was rarely confronted about my displays of the Confederate flag and was never really attacked verbally or physically. However, I was threatened by the principal’s daughter who was a senior my first year there. They were tolerant of my views, and they were very nice about it.

You are right that we can get along. You are pretty much correct with all of your final statements. I prefer to be around my own kind, and I plan to move to an Alabama town that is at least 80% white. I get along well with people of other races, I just do not enjoy constantly being around them.

One thing that caught my attention when I first saw this article was that you stated that Paula Deen is a Southern icon, yet you have never mentioned her on this website until now. In “The Demise of the Southern Woman,” Lydia McGaughey Sherman did not speak very highly of Mrs. Deen. Mrs. Deen was used as an example of a Southern woman who has fallen into the norm of other celebrities that so many people look up to with an example of divorce and a statement about the consumption of alcohol.

In the mid-20th Century the war against whites in this nation started with a change in our immigration policy which shut off immigration from Europe and encouraged immigration from the Third World and Asia. (We see how well THAT’S working out!) The mid-20th Century also saw the myth of judging people by their characters rather than characteristics such as religion, ethnicity and race. Of course, EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE is now the norm. Indeed, we have gotten to the point at which there is only ONE group of people in this country who are legally and ethically subject to discrimination and persecution: white traditional Christians.

Ms. Deen ought to have, hopefully, gained enough insight to know that she cannot win this fight and so she should just abandon her liberal “friends” and embrace the only “side” that will have her if she will reject her gratuitous and (frankly stupid) guilt; that is, her own Southern people, white AND black. If she does that, she will have a home. If she tries to remain with the race mongers, she will be just another Southern white statistic.

We CAN get along – we just can’t all have equal results, we just can’t all like to be with each other, and we just can’t all live next to each other. We CAN tolerate each other and get along with each other, and that’s about the best that we mortal beings are capable of – everything else is just the wishful dreaming of collectivists.